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Your safety matters

Make every interaction safer.

Take your time, protect your personal information, set clear boundaries and trust your instincts. These practical tips can help you make more informed decisions when contacting or meeting someone.

Protect your privacy

Share only what you are comfortable sharing.

Communicate clearly

Discuss expectations, boundaries and costs beforehand.

Consent comes first

Consent must be freely given and can be withdrawn at any time.

Trust your instincts

Pause or leave if anything feels wrong or pressured.

Before you meet

A little preparation can help you stay in control of your decisions.

  • Talk through the details

    Confirm the location, timing, agreed services or activity, price and any additional costs in advance. Do not assume anything that has not been agreed.

  • Keep control of your transport

    Plan how you will arrive and leave. If possible, use your own transport or have a reliable way to get home.

  • Tell someone you trust

    Consider sharing your general plans and arranging a check-in with a trusted person. Avoid sharing another person’s private details without permission.

  • Choose a setting carefully

    For a first meeting, consider a public place first when appropriate. If you proceed elsewhere, make sure you feel comfortable with the arrangements.

  • Keep your phone charged

    Make sure you can contact someone, access transport information and leave if you choose to.

Protect your privacy

You decide what information you share and when.

  • Do not share passwords, one-time codes, banking PINs or account recovery links.
  • Think carefully before sharing your home address, workplace, identity documents or live location.
  • Never take, save, publish or forward intimate images of another person without their explicit consent.
  • Be cautious with links, files and requests to move quickly to unfamiliar websites or apps.

Avoid scams and payment pressure

Be wary of demands that rely on urgency, fear or secrecy.

  • Be cautious if someone demands unexpected deposits, “release fees”, gift cards, cryptocurrency or repeated payments to prove trust.
  • Confirm the agreed amount and what it covers before making any payment.
  • Never share your M-Pesa PIN, card PIN, mobile banking password or verification code to receive money.
  • Keep transaction messages or receipts if you need to report suspected fraud. Contact your payment provider promptly if you believe you have been scammed.

Report unsafe activity

Help us identify impersonation, fraud and harmful content.

If you see a suspicious profile, suspected scam, impersonation, coercion or an image shared without consent, report it through the site. Include clear details and relevant evidence where it is safe and lawful to do so. Do not publicly post someone’s personal information as retaliation.

This guide provides general safety information and is not a substitute for professional, legal or emergency advice.